Category: Sensitivity

  • Why “Getting Used to It” Rarely Works for Sensitive Nervous Systems

    Many people with sensory sensitivity have heard this advice countless times:“You’ll get used to it”“Just expose yourself more”“Your tolerance will increase if you push through” This idea is often offered with good intentions. It comes from a belief that the nervous system works like a muscle: stress it, repeat the exposure, and eventually it adapts.…

  • When Love Is Conditional

    How Narcissistic Parenting Shapes the Developing Nervous System Children do not learn safety from explanations.They learn it from consistency. When caregiving is warm, predictable, and emotionally attuned, a child’s nervous system develops around the assumption that the world is largely safe and that distress will be met with repair.But when a parent is emotionally unavailable,…

  • When the Senses Learn to Protect

    The Link Between Sensory Sensitivity and Trauma Many people live with heightened sensitivity to sound, touch, light, movement, or emotional tone – and quietly wonder why.Why does a crowded room feel unbearable?Why does a sudden noise make the body jolt?Why can a simple touch, a tone of voice, or an unexpected interruption trigger discomfort, panic,…

  • The Myth of the “Low Tolerance”

    Why Sensory Sensitivity Is a Form of High Brain Accuracy “You’re too sensitive”“You have a low tolerance”“You should get used to it” These phrases are often said casually, even lovingly – but they carry a misunderstanding that can quietly shape how a person sees their own nervous system.