Category: Personal

  • How to Support a Sensitive Nervous System During Christmas?

    Supporting a neurodivergent brain during the holidays isn’t about forcing resilience – it’s about working with how the nervous system actually functions. Small, intentional adjustments can dramatically reduce overload and your post-holiday exhaustion.Remind yourself: I don’t need to attend everything.I don’t need to stay as long as others.My wellbeing matters as much as tradition.

  • When Love Is Conditional

    How Narcissistic Parenting Shapes the Developing Nervous System Children do not learn safety from explanations.They learn it from consistency. When caregiving is warm, predictable, and emotionally attuned, a child’s nervous system develops around the assumption that the world is largely safe and that distress will be met with repair.But when a parent is emotionally unavailable,…

  • Why Some Brains Need More Recovery Time

    The Hidden Physiology of Neurodivergent Burnout Some people can push through long days, loud environments, dense information, shifting plans, and endless social expectations with minimal impact. Others – especially neurodivergent individuals or those with sensitive, reorganizing, or chronically stressed nervous systems – find that the same demands lead to profound exhaustion, emotional flooding, or shutdown.…

  • What I Wish I Knew at the Beginning of My Recovery

    When a neurological event changes your life, no one hands you a map.You wake up in a different body, a different mind, a different emotional landscape – and somehow you’re expected to navigate it while still grieving who you used to be.

  • The Identity Shift After Neurological Change

    Who Am I Now? Neurological change doesn’t just alter how the brain functions – it reshapes the sense of self.When an injury, stroke, or medical event reorganizes neural pathways, the transformation is not merely cognitive.It is psychological, emotional, relational, and existential.

  • The Day My Brain Changed

    What No One Told Me About Becoming a Different Version of Myself I believed in science with my whole being.I believed in medicine, in skilled hands, in protocols and knowledge and sterile rooms that smelled like safety. I believed that when you entrust your life to a neurosurgeon, you are carried – held inside a…

  • What It Really Means to Be “Mindly Different”

    Why I Created Mindly Different For as long as I can remember, stories about people whose minds worked differently captivated me. Even as a child, I felt drawn to understand the inner worlds of those who thought, felt, or processed life in ways that weren’t considered “typical”. I didn’t have the vocabulary for it yet,…